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May 2, 2006, 12:54 pm CDT

It's My Turn

My husband and I have been together for over 20 years.  When he was at his sexual peak at 21 - I was there for him - having sex whenever, where ever he felt like it.  Now we are in our 40's.  I am at my peak - and he is not.  I have experienced his rejection more then I would like to admit.  He claims to be "Too tired" - "bad timing" - "worried about our children hearing us" - We live like we are brother and sister.  No screaming or fighting, but hardly any sex.  I always have to initiate it and then I am sadly rejected.  We have spoken about it - he thinks something is wrong with me - I went to the doctor and was told I'm normal.  I even asked him if he had a girlfriend or if he was gay.  To both questions the response was "no".  Any other women having this problem?  I am not over weight - although he is.  Yet I still desire him.  Any suggestions?  I am at the end of my rope.

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