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Topic : 07/30 A Husband's Shocking Confessions, Part 3

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Created on : Friday, November 16, 2007, 03:41:28 pm
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(Original Air Date: 11/21/07) Dr. Phil continues the dramatic story of a husband’s alarming confessions that have brought a marriage to its knees and rocked a television production. Dr. Phil sits down with Wade and Michelle to go over details of the frightening crimes Wade claims he has committed. He says he has raped and murdered several people, though his memories of certain events are fuzzy. Can Dr. Phil get to the truth? While the police and FBI search for evidence, Dr. Phil asks for details. Did Wade carry out these atrocious crimes, or are they just more lies? And why does he have two memories of the same event, with dramatically different outcomes? Don’t miss the shocking turn of events that no one saw coming! Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

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November 17, 2007, 9:15 am CST

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Confessions Doctor Husband's Part Phil Shocking Three.  Well Well Well here we go again just like Part---

Two onlyr lot differnt. See you on Wednesday November 21st, 2007. Sincerley Your. Russell Vlaanderen.---

November 17, 2007, 10:27 am CST


After reading the story of the husband and wife I can't imagine staying with a man so screwed up. I am going to watch Mon,Tues and Wed so I can find out if Wade is nuts or not. I would think she should have figured him out before now. Well I guess I'll just have to wait and see what happens. This is going to be a real dramatic show.
November 17, 2007, 12:56 pm CST

Husband's Shocking Confessions.

November 17/2007


I am totally amazed how this lady has been getting ruined by such a cowardly person. If it is true about him raping and killing others, I believe that God's hand has been upon this woman in a protective way.  Just seeing him in the previews of the show you can see this man's eyes and face is full of rage, hatred, and a powerful hatred toward women.

I am so thankful that this lady has been fortunate to be able to find things out and to be able to have a way out from such a monster. Thanks to Dr Phil for assisting her through this horrendous time she is living in.

I am a man twiced divorced, and was into unhealthy relationships, there is no reason why anyone has to put another's life in jeapordy like this man has.  He is a coward and doesn't have what it takes to just walk away from this venomous relationship, and instead, if it is true, he thinks it would be better to murder someone because up to this point he has always gotten away with it and his pride is hurt.

I believe this man is a naraccistic, vengeful, insecure person that only sees one way out because it is hard on his pride to know someone would leave him.  To him, this can warrant extreme measures to clean up what he thinks is beyond the border line of insulting him and leaving him.

If he is into the pornography this to can add hatred to women also and see them as low level trash in his eyes. What he ain't seeing is how it is destroying his life, plus the families if he is spending thousands of dollars on porn and then lying about it.  He can't  have a healthy relationship with his wife because he is probably fantasizing about the ones he sees through the porn when he is having sexual relations with his very attractive wife. This man is psychotic and a sociopath and I believe he is totally without concience in his doings of harming others.

This man needs to be incarcerated for life to make the public a little safer.

To his wife, you don't deserve this treatment and he don't deserve you because you have too much to offer and what you have can never fill such a self-centred character's desires and twisted mindset. HE IS NOT A MAN AS HE IS A TOTAL SELF SERVING MONSTER THAT DESERVES HIS KIND THAT ARE LOCKED UP FOR LIFE.


November 17, 2007, 8:58 pm CST

Crazy Lady

 This guy is obvisously very bad news. Why stay with someone who has claimed to do so many bad things? He could attack her or the kids. If she had half a brain in her head she would take those kids and leave his sorry butt!
November 19, 2007, 7:19 am CST

Scary Guy

Quote From: princessgina

 This guy is obvisously very bad news. Why stay with someone who has claimed to do so many bad things? He could attack her or the kids. If she had half a brain in her head she would take those kids and leave his sorry butt!
I was at the taping of the second and third shows and this guy is scary. He constantly contridicted himself when telling his of he supposed crimes. His obsession with his wife is beyond needing to bewith her - he would say or do anything to keep her under his thumb. Dr. Phil clearly saw through the nonsense he was dealing but calmly walked him through his story. I give him credit for that. After the first show, my friend and I discussed his appearance and both agreed he was full of it.

During the taping, Dr. Phil assured everyone that there was extra security both visible and not. A security guard was positioned next to our section of the audience during the entire taping.

Hopefully, you'll see the to-do he got into with the former FBI agent who administered his lie detector test. He truly showed his real personality without all the layers of self promotion he spouted through out the show.

While I felt sorry for the wife, it was hard to see why she married him in the first place. Now she is frightened and feels stuck.

Definitely worth watching.
November 19, 2007, 8:01 am CST

Husband's Shocking Confessions, Part 1,2,and 3

Dr. Phil, Michelle need to pack up the kids and her and move as far away from Wade as soon as possible. He is very dangerous to his wife and kids. Wade has been keeping way to many secerts, lying,clok and dagger and murder (if that) needs to be put away for the rest of his life. In other words, take him to the barn and horse whip him. No telling what he might do to Michelle and the childern.
November 19, 2007, 10:32 pm CST

Crazy Lady

Quote From: princessgina

 This guy is obvisously very bad news. Why stay with someone who has claimed to do so many bad things? He could attack her or the kids. If she had half a brain in her head she would take those kids and leave his sorry butt!
Gosh, I agree. Wouldn't you hate to meet him on a dark street somewhere? He would scare the crap out of me! He's so strange,and must be mental in the worst way.
November 20, 2007, 7:50 am CST

Military Issues

OK...I was at the second taping with my mother and I have to say, I agree that the husband needs help.  I agree that he has an anger issue that needs to be dealt with.  I actually believe that he believes that he has committed a crime somewhere, some place and he might have. 


No one makes any comments or statements of his military background.  Being married to law enforcement, daughter of a retired probation officer and surrounded by that type of life style all my life, his behavior with regards to the ex-FBI guy was not suprising.  Anyone who wears a uniform is conditioned to NOT look at individuals as the wife stated as "human".  If they stop just for one moment and "feel" anything, I could mean their life.  FAMILY is all you have when overseas, on the streets, anywhere.  The rest is being honorable and completing your mission and/or job the best one can. I would have to say, I understand both sides because WE are not the one experiencing this situation and it's real easy to sit up there and judge.  I will say that if anyone thought I was a danger especially to my children, I would be anger that someone, anyone would not remove them from my home.  That they would allow the possibility of them getting hurt or worse.  His anger came from a place of protection which is what he did for our country.  That is something that not all of you can say you are willing to do. 


This show left me feeling that the wife was looking for a way out and weak.  And as for the husband, now that he is on psych meds and open for critism and judgement...broken.  I think is was sad and pathetic to here that his own father handed him a gun and one bullet, that he feels he's not worthy of being a "man" in his family.


I hope Dr. Phil really does get to the bottom of it.  I really hope that both parties can find some peace.  But more than anything, those children (all of them) are protected from harsh comments and learn, experience that there are healthy and happy relationships that can be established.

November 20, 2007, 8:38 am CST


  I've watched the show on michelle and wade...Michelle, get the hell outta there. it's best for you and the children, YOU need to protect those children from this man. Wade needs some real serious help, and you, michelle can not help him. don't blame yourself for nothing, people like him are professionals, they know how to manipulate. good luck and I hope you do the right thing.... 
November 20, 2007, 9:13 am CST


i'v ben in a similar situation three yrs ago, married to a man who was a compulsive lier too and then three days before our one yr anniversary he gets arrested for molesting a nine yr old girl, then i learn some more horrible things about my husban that he also molested his daughter and niece as well, i know what Michelle is going thrue and i hope she gets her and her kids to safty fast....
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